Feminine

Untamed Feminine (working title) is a documentary about what happens when we shrink ourselves to survive in a world that fears emotional truth, vulnerability, and wildness.

The project began as a personal investigation into why so many women self-silence, are gaslighted, or feel they are “too much”. But the deeper we dug, the clearer it became: emotional suppression, disconnection from self, and social shame affect us all – regardless of gender. Young men are told to toughen up. Boys grow up without emotional role models. And we all end up disconnected from who we really are.

Through deeply personal stories and expert voices, this film explores what happens when we stop apologising for who we are. It’s not a film of answers — but an invitation to feel more, hide less, and create space for the parts of us that were never meant to be tamed.

While ‘Untamed Feminine’ is a working title, we aim to clarify our interpretation of femininity for the purpose of creating this documentary—or perhaps more aptly, a ‘Feelingsmentary.’

Feminine energy, which manifests within every individual, regardless of gender, is a complex amalgamation of qualities. These include, but are not limited to, emotion, intuition, vision, receptivity, nurturing, resilience, collaboration, empathy, and adaptability. This energy has been interpreted and valued differently across cultures and epochs, often associated with the concept of womanhood. It’s important to note that our references to ‘feminine’ and ‘womanhood’ serve more as shorthand for an idea rather than strict definitions. 

Our ambition lies in delving into our culture and the diverse experiences of individuals. However, it’s essential to acknowledge that we do not claim to represent all experiences; our narrative focuses on our perceptions and how our society engages with individuals who identify with womanhood and embody femininity. As we navigate through this intricate tapestry of narratives and reflections, I am profoundly aware of my extraordinary luck and privilege to have the opportunity to immerse myself in this project. It’s a privilege that highlights both the profound importance and the pressing need for such explorations.